I'm Going Straight To Hell
I'm going straight to HELL. Straight there. No stopping.
Funerals are supposed to be solemn occasions. Especially Catholic funerals, what with their comforting rituals that see the deceased off in style. Since my uncle is a priest, it was quite the send-off my grandmother got... she would have been very pleased. No less than 6 con-celebrants and a full corral of priests, since my uncle used to be head priest at this particular parish and only recently started at another parish....
The problem wasn't the funeral. The problem, if there had to be one--and there was--was MY family. Not the extended family, not cousins or aunts or uncles. My brother, father and me.
We are the black sheep of the enormous extended Irish Catholic family. With good reason, as you will see. My brother likes to drink, for fun. He is not even 30 yet. My father had a massive stroke last year and he is not himself. Me, I'm just a regular gal, living a (non) life.
But this funeral was a most excellent fun time. For my brother and me, at least. After the visitation, the party moved to my aunt's condo and we were not invited. We were staying at a convent/old folks' home (rooms are free to family members) called The Little Sisters of the Poor. Lots of nuns in black habits, taking excellent care of the elderly--my grandmother had been one of the people receiving great care from this small cadre of supreme caregivers (it's their mission to care for the elderly).
The convent is very quiet. At night you can literally hear a pin drop. So my brother and I stared at each other over a bottle of Glenlevit and said, "Let's just go out and find a pub." We left my father there, already in bed, and drove down the street where we found a brew pub. Instead of beer, we had Mojitos.
After a little discussion about where we could score some weed (we argued about which relatives were holding and would share), we finally just asked the waitress if she had any to sell. She did.
Long story short: we had to use a coffee filter for rolling paper. (The convent provided fully-stocked suites...) I rolled a most excellent tight and tasty joint. We inhaled and blew the smoke out the window. The convent soon REEKED of ganja. We could NOT stop laughing. We were freaked out that nuns were living and praying where we were trying to get high. All we did was laugh, smoke pot and drink Scotch. I believe phone calls full of giggling were placed to various people....
I just couldn't stop laughing. I haven't been high in YEARS. At least 20 years.
I'm going straight to HELL.
I'm a bad person.
The morning of the funeral I was still high, because I was too afraid to go to sleep on the rock-like bed the nuns provided. I was afraid they'd smell the weed and throw us out into the street. So, I was still high after three hours of terrible sleep. Got to the funeral LATE (it was a long ways from the convent) and my aunt threw me into the lineup with two cousins to carry up the gifts at the funeral Mass. I didn't actually have a gift to carry up, by my aunt made me go anyway, so I hauled my sorry ass all the way up to the altar. The walk seemed really long... that was the best funeral I've been to in a loooooooong time.
Grandma, please forgive me. If you were looking down, please realize that I do miss you and did love you and only wanted the best for you during your long life. I'm sorry I was stoned in the convent and was still toasted at your funeral.
God bless us, everyone.